WOMEN MEN ADORE…. NEVER WANT TO LEAVE
How To Captivate A Man, Make Him Fall In Love…and Want To Give You The World! Women Men Adore and Never want to leave you.
Bob grant is going to tell you about women men adore and never want them to leave. You are going to read about a 41 year old single mom named Anna. How she went from divorced, single, alone and hopeless to having men constantly pursuing her. Everywhere and including the elevator!
Until She Chose the One Special Man Who Stood Out From All the Others. The one man who promised to love her forever and finally convinced her to be his.
- Why being positive and upbeat all the time actually makes him ignore your needs.
- So many women open their hearts to a man because he tells them he loves them and promises his devotion.
- And yet these same women often miss this key warning sign.
In fact, they actually tell women exactly the OPPOSITE of what they need. So Bob is going to tell you exactly what a man wants, below. Even though most men do not even realize this themselves.
Hi, my name is Bob Grant. Most men tell women that they want them to more laid back and easy going and not to complain. Yet that is just what Anna did before she started working with me. And the man she loved still left her, even though she gave him exactly what he told her he wanted.
Based on her experience, and hundreds of other clients in my private practice I decided to take all of my clinical training as a licensed Professional and began doing research. To find the hidden emotional key that made a man want to connect with a woman on a deep emotional level and stay committed to her.
Even if she was not the prettiest, thinnest or anything that Cosmo magazine said she should be. I have been doing this for 20 years now. I have cracked the Bonding Code for thousands of women.
Even found research that spoke to this when I discovered the editor of Psychology Today, T George Harris. Who said that while money, looks and social status make a woman more appealing.
Alfred Adler, who worked with Sigmund Freud, also described this almost mystical quality nearly 100 years ago. That enabled a woman to captivate a man, almost without even trying. And yet so few women have ever been told about it’s truly hypnotic effect on men. Until now.
What is so amazing is that this works for you.
Even if You do not have the body of a Victoria Secret lingerie model and even if You are 21 or 55.
Even if you are Tall, short, blonde, brunette or whatever trait you feel holds you back. From experiencing the love and attention from a man that you have always wanted.
So I need you to pay close attention to this ENTIRE message right now. Because if you miss just one second of what I’m about to share with you… just ONE PART… this Bonding Code might not work. This is the EXACT same formula that I shared with Anna on our first visit.
10 years earlier, she sat at a fancy restaurant with beautiful music playing. When Tyler got up out of his chair, bent down on one knee and ask her to be his forever. Stunned and speechless, she started to cry with tears of joy as she said yes to his proposal. When they were married she knew she’d picked the right man for her and wanted to make sure she was the wife he had always wanted.
So she did what she thought a man would like. She almost always agreed to his sexual advances while being both positive and upbeat, most of the time. In fact Tyler often bragged to other couples that she was one of the most giving women he had ever known.
She was making her morning coffee when Tyler came into the kitchen and sat down at the table. At first, she thought nothing of this until she turned around and saw him staring off into space.
She asked if was Anything wrong. For a moment he did not say anything. Until he took a deep breath and uttered the words that punched her in the stomach:
“I am sorry, but I think we should separate.”
At that moment she found it suddenly hard to breath as she forced the words to come out. Asked him why?
“I am sorry,” he said, “but I just do not think I am in love with you anymore.”
The words cut her like a knife as a sense of both fear and numbness engulfed her.
Desperately she wanted to talk with him. Yet he said he had to leave and that they would discuss it later. But later never came that day.
Tyler never offered her a reason. Except to say that something was missing and he could not stay with her any longer. In the coming days her mind raced from thoughts of fear to anger and then back to fear as the questions kept racing through her mind.
Was he having an affair?
If she could just understand, then she could fix it.
After 3 months she felt that she was going to drown in grief if she did not talk with someone. So a friend referred her to me.
After a few minutes sitting across from me she paused. Looked me in the eye and asked, “Bob, who’s going to want a 41 year old divorced woman with small children?” After losing the man who had promised to love her forever. I understood her doubts and fears.
One afternoon she went to see her attorney and entered the elevator to his 14th floor office. When she got in she pushed the button for her floor. And noticed a man who was busy talking to someone on his cellphone.
As the elevator began it’s ascent, he stopped his call and glanced at her, then looked away. She felt a nervous twinge. Then not a moment later she was shocked when he said, “I am sorry, but I do not normally do this. I do not know if I will ever see you again so I wanted to ask you if I could call you sometime.”
As the elevator came to her floor she just knew the look of complete shock was draped all over her face. But somehow she managed to say, “Oh, thank you but I am afraid I have got to go.”
She tried to dismiss her experience as something random. Until 2 weeks later at a friend’s dinner party. Yet that evening 2 men were captivated by her every word. The attention was almost overwhelming for her as each ask her when they would see her again.
No longer was she broken and despondent. And in the coming weeks she had men calling her constantly and begging her to spend time with her. The doubts that haunted her just a few months ago now seemed almost silly.
So what happened that made this 41 year old single mother go from being abandoned to suddenly sought after. By over a dozen men?
Everything began to change for her once she learned this secret.
As a Woman it is Critical That You Understand a Man’s Emotional Needs. More Than He Does or Else He will Pull You into What I Call the “Giving Pit.”
This is the unconscious and destructive urge within a man that is only happy when you are doing something to please him. It is as dangerous as a Vampire that drains the very life out of a helpless young woman. And here is the big trap. He will EVEN say this is what he wants. But do not listen and do not give in!
That it will keep him devoted to you.
That it will make him love you.
But here is what is tragic about this. As logical as that sounds, giving too much to a man does not make him love you. It will make him despise you. Even though that is often exactly what a man tells you he wants!
This is why I am going to share with you something that is counter intuitive to everything even men tell you they want in a woman.
Because if you let him keep pulling you down that path to the “Giving Pit” you are actually increasing the chance that he might leave you.
But that does not work. Because it actually trains him to think you are willing to do whatever he wants. And what makes this so bad? Is that he will just assume all you care about is his needs, his happiness with nothing left for you.
Kind of like you are his mother. Doting on him and caring only about his needs. With your sole purpose focused on making sure he is happy.
But the truth is that never getting angry with a man actually makes him get bored with you. The reason is this: Men live by this motto –
“If you can not handle me when I am rude or disrespectful, then you are too weak for me to ever trust you when I am scared.”
I am sorry to tell you but doing that will only lead to my deepest fear for you.
That he will take you for granted by:
- Only calling you when he is in the mood.
- Having his desire for you go hot and cold, for no apparent reason.
- Expecting you to be positive and upbeat…all the time.
That effortless quality to glow and charm a man without even trying.
- Without have to resort to weird games or skin tight clothes.
- Without having to give into a man’s demands just to please him.
- And Without having to worry about saying the wrong thing.
Perhaps you know her better as the wife of the famous actor, Robert Downey Jr. Who was thought to be untamable until he met her. His drug usage and womanizing is legendary….even by Hollywood standards. Yet, after turbulent affairs with actresses Marisa Tomei, Jennifer Jason Leigh, Sarah Jessica Parker and countless others. Everything came crashing down one fateful day. Out of his mind on Cocaine, he had wandered in to his neighbor’s home. And fell asleep in her 11 year old son’s empty bed. But not before he had undressed to his underpants.
Shortly after this, as fate would have it, he would meet the woman that would change his life forever.
To This Day He Admits That All of His Success Would Mean Nothing Without Her by His Side.
That is the power of “The Campfire Effect.” And as I began sharing it’s secrets with my clients I started hearing them say things like this.
43-Year Old Single Mother Has Younger Men
Wanting To Date Her
“I have had more attention in the last 3 months than in my entire life. The funniest part of it all is that I’m a 43 year old single mother with 4 great kids, and I have yet to date a man over 33 since learning The Campfire Effect!
–Tina Torkelson, Delaware *
He Wants To Marry Her
“What you taught actually worked! Mike and I plan to marry at a small private mass at our church.”
He Listened To Every Word She Said
My boyfriend and I had a conflict over behavior that I felt was inappropriate. I spoke to him exactly how you taught me and he was quiet and ATTENTIVE to everything I said. In fact he said to me, “What can I do so the next time I don’t hurt you the way I hurt you tonight?” He really wanted to make me feel better, he wanted to please me. It was exactly how you described it would be.”
Nathalie Mourin *
For the Last 15 Years I have Been Teaching Women About the Mysterious Mind-Heart Connection That Produces “The
This effect makes a man not only notice you, but feel an irresistible desire to be close to you.
Think about a campfire on a cool winter day. You can feel the warmth of the heat as your eyes are fixated on the dancing flames. It is so comfortable that you could stay there, just looking into the fire for hours.
That is what a man will feel when you learn to harness the power of “The Campfire Effect.”
The secret to creating desire is not to make a man feel good. It is to create tension. To make him so uncomfortable. That he will only feel better when he is with you. Remember a man needs to feel that he caught you to be able to bond with you.
Never argue with a man. But not for the reason you think. The problem with arguing is that it is not POWERFUL enough. When you are upset with him you want him to not only understand you, but FEEL why you are upset. And I can show you how.
Always give back less to a man that you receive. For men the prize is not how much you give. It is being able to make you happy. When you try and give as much as he does then you are innocently acting like a man. If you are not good at receiving, then you will actually teach a man to stop giving to you.
Now I love helping people. But unfortunately I only have time to work with so many women in my private practice. But I want to help even MORE. So I have taken all of the best insights that my clients have told me works again and again. And put it together in one amazing program.
It is called “The Woman Men Adore”
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